Every parent certainly wants to have children who are obedient and kind. No wonder if from an early age parents have taught good values to their children.
However, sometimes parents are unable to deal with their disputing or dissident children. Even parents are often confused about how to deal with rebellious children.
But don’t be confused, moms, the following 10 things can be a reference on how to educate children not to become dissidents.
Improve communication with children
Communication that is not smooth with children will make it difficult for parents to convey their intentions to children. Because they do not know how to communicate properly, parents will find it difficult to make children understand what they want to say, so the child will argue.
Listen to the child
Some parents are reluctant to take the time to listen to children’s aspirations because they think the child does not have much experience. This attitude will not help in developing a child’s character. This attitude will actually make children feel not considered and not valued.
Don’t spoil the child too much
Pampering children by fulfilling all their desires will make children not understand how to struggle to get something. This will make him rebel when his parents cannot grant what he asks for.
Teach children to be independent
More independent children will find it easy to convey their feelings and desires appropriately so there is no need to argue whenever parents advise or tell them to do something.
When a child denies what you say, don’t give in just to avoid debate. If you give in, the child will learn that he can avoid the command by being disobedient or defiant. And on another occasion, he will repeat it again.
Take care of emotions
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